Our Parish Family congratulates you on this important step in your life.  We are aware of the enormous amount of time and energy you will put into planning for your wedding day.  We are also concerned with your preparation for married life, and will assist you in preparing for this significant event of your lives.

The Roman Catholic Bishops of Michigan, as of January 1, 1981, stated that a couple wishing to marry in the Catholic Church must contact a priest at least six months prior to the wedding. This guideline was made to give the couple and the priest celebrating the wedding adequate time for preparation.

Weddings may be celebrated at St. Clare of Montefalco Church:

    Fridays anytime from 4:00 – 6:00 p.m. or
    Saturdays between 10:00 a.m., 1:00 p.m. or at 6:00 p.m

Marriages at St. Clare begin with a “Profile” being mailed (or emailed) to the bride and groom. The couple will each complete and return his or her profile of general information, which will assist the priest in his preparation for the couple’s first visit.  Once the profiles have been received, the priest will contact the couple to make the appointment.  During this first meeting with the priest, any questions or concerns may be discussed, and a marriage date may be requested.

The Catholic bride and groom will be required to call his and her parish of Baptism to request a newly issued (within 6-months) Baptismal Certificate with parish seal.  If possible, the couple should bring the Certificates with them for their first visit with the priest.  If one of the parties is not Catholic, a copy of the Certificate issued at his or her Baptism will suffice.  When a parish of Baptism has closed and/or no longer exists, Baptismal Certificates may often be obtained by calling the Diocesan Office of Archives.  These newly issued certificates will be retained by our parish in the couple’s Marriage file.  (If one of the parties has not been baptized, no certificate will be requested.)

Couples coming to St. Clare from out-of-state are required to have a Form B (Witness Sheet from the Archdiocese) completed by their parents or by someone who has known them for a reasonable amount of time.  Once completed, the signatures on these forms must be witnessed by a Priest, Deacon, or Notary Public before they are mailed to St. Clare.  They will be retained by the parish in the couple’s Marriage file.

All couples wishing to marry at St. Clare Church are required to take a pre-marital inventory entitled “Foccus.” This inventory is an aid for discussion with couples, surfacing strengths and weaknesses, common interests and concerns regarding communication, family, faith, finances, in-laws, etc.   After your first visit with the priest,  you will register for the “Foccus Inventory” which you will complete at the Parish Offices.  Once completed, you will be assigned a mentor couple to discuss the results with you.

Couples are required to attend a Pre-Marriage Workshop or Seminar before their marriage. There are many different types such as: The Pre-Marriage Seminar, Marriage Preparation Programs, Covenant Love, Engaged Encounter, etc. Our priest or Deacon will give you the information at your first meeting with them. After you have taken the workshop, please drop off the the certificate you received to the parish office to be placed in your marriage file.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation (confession) will not be celebrated at the wedding rehearsal. You are asked to avail yourself of the weekend schedule for confessions (i.e.  Saturdays from 2:30 p.m. until 3:30 p.m. or by personal appointment).

At least three weeks before the wedding, the couple will call Fr. Andrew or Deacon Rich to make an appointment for a final meeting.  Since the wedding ceremony involves both bride and groom, it is fitting that both of you participate actively in planning the details of your liturgical celebration of marriage.  There are many options from which to choose, and we will assist you with this part of your preparation.  Please use the booklet TOGETHER FOR LIFE and the Wedding Ceremony Preparation Sheet (found in the back of the booklet) in preparing for your ceremony.

Wedding Rehearsal.  We will guide the wedding party through the rehearsal and wedding.

After you have settled in your new home, please make an effort to register in a local parish. (This should be done even if you continue to worship at St. Clare Parish.)  Join the parish and become actively involved; the faith community needs your presence and participation on a regular basis.